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Maybe I can believe this girl or she is a master to deceive me and trick money out of me. Thanks for the amazing insight. Anonymous - April 6th, at 3: That my secure financial situation and higher social status makes me attractive. I asked my dad for money to go to the movies. Will being American work to my advantage or will it just make me stand out? On December of last year, I made a few resolutions to make myself better in all areas of life.
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Maybe they just psyched me out. Hi James, Wow what a great story. I have been on vacation and was happy not to have any computer with me. I think my post is probably one of the least offensive and paints the Medellin woman in a positive light. Regardless, I appreciate the criticism and will work on making my tone of writing more clear. So you might want to plan you trip around festivals.
So we see each other sometimes during the week, but mostly on weekends. There were other girls there, and we were all dancing. Got in a cab without explanation and took off. Last week she wrote me and told me that she missed me, I told her the same. So we met up for dinner. She arrived with a gift bag and gave it to me.
It was a little-stuffed animal and a card, which I thought was awesome. I remember when I was a kid and I was going to go on my first date with a girl. I asked my dad for money to go to the movies. He told me that I had to work for it. He then said that I had to go to work the next day as well. At 13 I was baffled by this. He said that I needed to have money for: In Medellin, women, in general, expect the guy to pay.
Of course, there are women that will offer to split or pay the whole tab. Furthermore, there are girls that will want to take advantage. With D, I always send an Uber to pick her up and bring her to my apartment or to our date spot. Al Alma — This is my favorite for two reasons, the coffee is great and the portions are big. On December of last year, I made a few resolutions to make myself better in all areas of life.
Day DayChallenge pushups. A post shared by Andrew Macia andrewmacia on Sep 11, at 5: All of these things have helped me become more awesome. My 3-year goal is to help retire my parents, therefore, I need all the energy, motivation, and positive influences I can get. Anyone who thinks they can just be friends with benefits with someone they keep seeing is an idiot. One of my resolutions is to do more fun things out of the office.
Therefore, on the first weekend of the year I participated in a 3 on 3 tournament in a town called Marinilla near Rio Negro. Dani was nice enough to accompany me. It was an all-day affair, so her putting up with basketball all day was nice. We got second place. Dani got a medal for hanging out all day at the tournament and cheering us on. After the tournament, we went to eat at a great restaurant in the town called La Torre.
Marinilla is a cool little town less than an hour outside of Medellin. On the way back home we took the bus. My B-Day was on January 3rd. It was a nice surprise. All of my friends were there and we had a great meal. Regular exercise, good diet, and dating a year-old help. I see it all of the time. Foreign guys come here and have a couple bad experiences, then state that all Colombian chicks are possessive, jealous, and crazy. If you ever hear that from a guy, make sure to ask him what his experience with women in his own country has been.
A lot has happened in these first three months of We both work during the week so we only see each other on weekends. We just moved to a bigger, better office. And all my basketball tournaments 3 of them are in full swing. One of my favorite things to do in Medellin with my friends is to rent out a finca country home and have a weekend party. We rented a bus. Half of us met at Hija Mia Cafe, where the bus picked us up and took us to the finca in Santa fe de Antionquia, about an hour and half away from Medellin.
Colombian women by the pool at the finca. It is not my intention to degrade or generalize Colombia women. Medellin is a beautiful city with a lot to offer. My intention is to show how these stereotypes are not true, how diverse dating can be in Medellin, and of course how interesting the Paisa woman is.
I highly recommend it. Hello, my name is Andrew Macia and the Medellin Buzz is my blog. I moved to Medellin in and fell in love with the city. I taught advanced level English for four years and then started a digital marketing company. I love Colombia, and Medellin is my home. I like to write and I want to give back to the community. This is the best way I know how. I hope you enjoy my blog! It slowly turned into a personal blog and hub for information for people discovering Medellin.
In Medellin you will also find a lot of beautiful, smart women who have their own business or work independently. Do you have any data to back this up? This post is about my personal experience.
I have found many, and see many every day here in downtown. Teaching English to 18 to 30 year olds has made me more aware of that group of women as well. I by myself fund exat one of these girls! By casualty but i think more or less he s right in what he sais. Must you be able to speak Spanish to teach English there?
It may sound odd but many places this is not a requiement. Who do you work for. No speaking Spanish is not a requirement. How long does one have to teach? Competition for teaching jobs is growing and growing here in Medellin. Not only are there more foreigners wanting to teach, but there are also many Colombians, not only from Medellin, but from nearby cities. Universities and private institutions alike require credentials.
As for applying for a teaching job showing up and hounding the director or the person in charge of hiring is key. There are more than private English institutions here in Medellin, so there is an opportunity. As for wages, most private institutions hire teachers as independent contractors for part time or full time work. Some smaller institutions are poorly managed and getting paid on time can be an issue. My name is Rick. I live in Chicago. I am originally from India.
I visited Cali and Kartagena 3 months and now coming to Medellin on octo I love the Colombian girls and their style so here I am.
Thank you for your experience sharing in Medellin. Would like to get to know the local culture by mingling with locals so can I spend few hours in your English class to experience the local way of life? Possibly go disco dancing with few of your fiends but of course all drinks are on me.
I am not really interested in strip clubs or etc. Well feel free to hit me up when you get here! Yes Mike, you are correct there are ignorant, racist people all over the world, including Medellin…as you have proved. However, Rick, I do have a few friends that are Indian that have managed to make lots of friends and actually run businesses and lead a successful life here in Medellin: Sidhartha, owner of the restaurant Curry https: People in Medellin are very friendly and are generally accepting of foreigners in their city.
They are just not usually interested on gringos, which is why they are not easily found by foreigners. Just to give you an example, there is about 3, registered hair salons and beauty supply shops in Medellin, and most of them are owned by women. Thanks for the comment. What kind of scare tactic is this? Yes there are bad people here, but crime occurs everywhere in the world.
Ah that really sucks. My friends and I all entrepreneurs have been living here for over 6 years now. Not one has had that happened to them. I think it is pitiful that you cannot write something less shallow about such a beautiful, vibrant city than how to pick up Medellin women! Everyone knows the women there are beautiful and easy to meet and date.
And that they love foreigners, even though you are Colombian. How about the gastronomy, culture, events, music?? THAT would be much more helpful to those who want to experience Medellin. To go there looking for women is pathetic and gives US men a really bad name — kind of like the incident with the Secret Service in Cartagena.
I have written about all of those topics. If you look through my blog all of those topics are covered, even history my associates and I are tour guides here in Medellin , but this is the topic that gets the most attention. I think my post is probably one of the least offensive and paints the Medellin woman in a positive light.
I think it paints them as easy pick-ups. Maybe most of your readers are men if this topic gets the most attention. I completely respect your opinion and value your input. The topic of dating in Medellin? The fact that I prefer women who are professional? Thanks again for your comment. Dear Linda, It is very easy to safe yourself a peace of mind. Just do not read, and of course, do not judge things you are opposing naturally.
America women say they got HIT On. In Colombia they call it meeting someone. This might be why Americans talk about it…cause the women are not like you, and a lot of other American uptight women. They like attention so much and when they see other women especially cute women who are not fake like them nor have this man like attitude like them getting all the attention they get pissed off and nitpick every little thing out of frustration.
If that is how you feel then more power to you. Life is about living the way you feel is right for you.. Problem with men is that they become too attached to the female specimen..
Yes Daniel, email it over to me. First i would like to say that it is a great issue to write about. I gor to tell you the truth, when i read this post i got the feeling you would like to talk about your self a lil too much.
And i, as someone that also live in medellin, i dont think the things are as you describe. The avarage girls will expect you to pay for everything, spescialy the texi. The kind of girls are you describe are exsisted, and i know them as well, but they are not common. The high quality girls wouldnt be that fascinated from the gringos. Normaly the low level will. Try to write less about your stories and to bring more facts that connected to reality.
Hi Another Anonymous, thanks for the constructive criticism. I will work on getting more actual facts. I rather speak about my own experiences, but I guess you are right; when writing about delicate issues like gender and relationships one should have some stats.
I date 50 to 60 YO or so. Often they find me as fascinating as I find them. It is often a great experience. I am Spanish tutor for foreigners in case someone is interested..
Thanks Andrew this is my contact info: Women who like a man who is not nice need a psychologist. Live and learn and is this not why so many Colombian women think the men are all cheaters and then seek foreign men? Live and learn or error again? I ve been following your posts lately. I am too glad that a foreigner people as you write such a beutiful things about our city.
Espero que no haya cometido muchos errores. Hi Jhon, thanks a lot. I look forward to meeting you at our next Conversation Club Cocktail Party. I have been reading your posts and I am happy to see an honest approach to life there and to hear such a positive outlook on life there with your personal experiences.
I definitely have a interest in visiting Medellin soon and exploring life and business there. Hi Stacey, thanks for the positive feedback. Medellin is a great place to be, but then again a positive mind can make any place a great place. You gotta come see it to make it your own. I hope to meet you when you get down here.
I am totally interested in living in a city outside the US that will allow me more for my money and is friendly to Americans just looking to integrate into their lifestyle and culture. Not being discriminated against for being 60 is also important. I am healthy fit and handsome. Is Medellin worth giving a shot. I love the idea of teaching English. I taught high school for a few years. Thanks for any and all responses. Medellin should definitely be on your list of cities to consider.
In regards to ageism in the dating world here. There is, however, ageism for work here. It is very rare to see anyone over 40 years old working. Since you were a teacher you could perhaps work at a university, but you have a fair warning. BTW being a blue-eyed white guy works to your advantage here. Encouraging words and nice to hear.
I know some rudimentary Spanish that I would love to build on. Given any opportunity I think I can handle the dating scene. Thank you very much for sharing your experiences without advertising for some dating site or other. It makes you much more credible. And holding on to her if she happens to be attractive? Hi Hans, Thanks for the comment. I write based on my experience and my personality. Alpha males are not all that Medellin women look for. Medellin has all types of women, so finding yourself a woman with the qualities you like is possible.
I encourage you to come and test the waters. If you do visit Medellin make sure that you come for at least a month or two because most respectable women take a while to warm up to. There are so many things to do and see here. Thank you for the awesome post.
I heard k-pop is huge in Medellin or in Colombia in general. He told me a lot of young college aged Colombian girls would come up to you and ask to take pictures with them and etc. I have plans on visiting many countries in and Colombia is one of the country I will visit for sure!! I love food so food adventure will be the number one priority to venture Colombia but not alone.
I also have interest on meeting a local beautiful Colombian woman, not prostitutes, and find some romance at the same time too.
Will I have a chance to do so?? Yo MKO, the short answer is yes, you have a chance at finding romance in Colombia. I teach English and there is always a couple of students who love K-Pop or Korean soaps. I just wanted to say it!!! I admire you alot… my best wishes love u.
You have definitely been one of my best students. It was fun being your teacher. Yeah Medellin is great. The only thing missing is the beach, I used to live in Huntington Beach. Just to keep with the theme of your blog. Im a blue eyed Scotsman, is it worth my while bringing my kilt or is that trying too hard with the local ladies?
Being certified and having worked for the ScotsMan. I think the key would be for you to get into a good paying position. I recommend living in a lower income level yet safe neighborhood first, once you get your bearings and cashflow up you can get into some of the more expensive neightborhoods.
Go for it, Michael. They will love the kilt. I am going to Colombia within the next year and am really looking forward to it. Vaya con suerte Go with luck Jimmy. So the questions should be: The best place to meet girls in Medellin…is…well…anywhere.
The supermarket, the library, the metro, at a bar, dancing, etc. Andrew ,this is the best blog I have had the pleasure to read. I met a Medellin girl on a dating website. She invited down to Medellin Colombia. I speak Spanish ,I would say as a second language. Here is my story. We were shuttled off to a Hotel that my girlfriend picked out. I had no inpout in this choice. It was not in Poblado, for some reason we ended up on Carretera Wall to wall little discos that are blasting music all night.
I had to stay in Medellin for a month. So I was stuck down by the metro near the stadium stop on Carrera I was told to take off my gold chain, gold watch, anything Gold, the Police roll in late or early in the morning in a military vehicle like all together.
To be honest with you Andrew I felt there was an unverbalized thing going on that you are not where you should be. I needed a guard from the Hotel to get monies from the cajero ATM. Plus, of course my girlfriend shows me a video of Colombian soldiers in a military jeep all shot through the head. Your right about the jealousy, anyway, after they filled me with horror stories about being kidnapped, murdered or worse during the Pablo Escobar period.
I was totally paranoid about even buying a beer solo at night. Maybe they just psyched me out. I never did get to Poblado or any other nice area, only the malls. What is your opinion of that area down by Carrera Andrew is it as dangerous as I perceived or am I just paronoid form my perception.
I never heard the word drugs, nor did I ask about the mafia. But upon arrival back in Miami the Border patrol agents took me into a room and gave me a complete search and investigation of what the hell I was doing in Medellin. I had to go and call them and they gave me the third degree. W Why I was sending money to Medellin. To whom I was sending it. What I was doing in Medellin. I know the story. Miami was the money laundering capital during the Pablo Escobar era, but this is like 20 years ago.
Anyway, they refused to release the monies in Colombia after an hour of investigation. What a total disgrace. If I had to do it over again , I would have went straight to Poblado and payed for a hotel. I just think I was in the wrong place at the wrong time, but I have a beautiful fiance. Thanks for your time Andrew. The neighborhood you were in is called Estadio it boarders the Laureles, Floresta, and Belen neighborhoods.
Which are all decent neighborhoods. I lived in Floresta Carrera 80 just a few blocks up. And I have a friend who owns the best Hostel in Medellin right there on la 70 about 6 blocks from the stadium, you might consider staying in one of the private rooms there next time The Wandering Paisa Hostel. My own family tried to do it to me when I got here. Filled me with horror stories about foreigners getting mugged in plain daylight, getting taken on la vuelta millionaria where they take you at gun point to different ATMs and make you withdraw money, etc.
So yes your fiance and her friends were being way too over protective and scared you, that area by the stadium is fine, especially la 70 at night. The whole thing about traveling is that you have to be more on guard than you do in your own town in the U.
She can buy a brand new AKT scooter not cheap for that price: I read your article and I really enjoyed it and I got great information from it. Is there any truth to that and what can I do? I suggest you pose the question on an expat group in Facebook: Hostels are relatively cheap here in Medellin. A couple of my favorites are: Check em out Wandering Paisa Hostel. If you want to be in the Poblado neighborhood, where most tourists are.
You might get tired of the dorm life at the hostels. If so, you might want to check out some rooms for rent on Couch Surfing or on the many Facebook Groups. You could get a job and you could get a work visa.
It depends on what your credentials are and what the job is. I have many friends who are here on work visas, so it is possible, but not easy. If I were you, I would start looking into that now, not when you get here. Spanish is pretty critical here. Most of the population here does not speak English at all. Anyway, to answer your questions: The great thing about Colombian women is that there is not just one type of guy that they like.
Carrying a bank card is fine. What a great article and blog. Thanks for the amazing insight. Just had a couple of questions. I will be visiting Medellin with 3 other Puerto Rican friends in November. We will be staying at am apartment we rented in El Poblado. What recommendations do you have in regards to restaurants, bars, clubs to go to. Also, what safety issues should we keep in mind while in the area. Hey Jaime, thanks for the comment. I actually wrote a nightlife post that you might find helpful: Are there any christian churches such as Pentecostal and Baptist churches in Middellin?
Just reading these comments and how you respond to them especially negative ones gives me a good sense of the kind of person you are. Your students must feel very lucky to have you. Hi Caleb, thank you for your kind words and invitation. I most definitely will make my way to Japan, awesome to know someone over there. Andrew- Soy Miguel se Seattle. I just returned from Medellin and Quilla for carnival and found the women in Colombia difficult to deal with or interact unless handled them with kid gloves.
Can you hit me up? Gracias hermano, Miguel Aguilar Seattle Firefighter. Hola Miguel, yes, for the most part women way more feminine than those in the U. Which is why I love them. I have, however, used ColombiaCupid. Feel free to add me on Facebook. I tried to send you an e-mail message on your e-mail address that you indicated in this blog, but it bounced back stating that Google tried to deliver your message, but it was rejected.
I had some questions that I wanted to ask you via e-mail only, but the e-mail message was not delivered to the e-mail address that you indicated in the blog. The e-mail address that I used to send the e-mail message to you was: I tried Colombian cupid. A dating expert told me,that only the average Colombian women use the site.
And the top most beautiful women did not. Recently I met a women,from Medellin. I enjoy spending time with her. She recently had breast implants. Is that common in Medellin?
She seems to be so concern about her body. What were some of your highlights? And when you finally score that first date, check these 40 Irresistible First Date Ideas. Here are three great ways to engage: Tell me two truths and a lie about yourself! What does that day look like? I liked what you wrote about getting sloppily written messages.
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I have plans on visiting many countries in and Colombia is one of the country I will visit for sure!!
Maybe I will try and work on my spanish a little more. Shortly after she replied and we started to exchange messages.
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